Yeah I know the feeling, I felt exactly the same. The Pimax 8k will have hardware IPD so that could be an option. The mod I did is not for the faint of heart and I would not suggest doing that if you do not feel comfortable doing such operation.
I visited the optometrist yesterday and my IPD is exactly 68mm. I thought Pimax should sell a lens mounting kit for the right IPD or maybe a lens with a different focal length.
There is a fellow that was 3d printing some kind of lens adapter. That adjusted ipd for gearvr? Might be using an extra set of lenses with slight angle to redirect eyes? Not sure.
Screenwise though upu can't spread as like psvr it has only 1 screen.
An extra set of lenses with slight angle to redirect eyes - something like that would be a cure
I wonder if pimax support could provide ready-made files for eg IPD 68mm for 3d printers of the front part to which the lenses are screwed. Unfortunately, I have not found any spare parts or finished 3D scanned designs on the internet and modified to the appropriate IPD. @Pimax-Support